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He looks at me careful not to show face,
as he undresses me with his eyes.
You lost one.
He holds my face as he kisses my lips,
the reflection of happiness in my eyes...
as he catches a glimpse of him in my iris he shys away..
You lost one.
He looks at me like chineese porcelean;
beautiful and delicate.
You lost one.
Im strong like plexiglass;
and Ill bend; fend; and mend anything for your @ss.
He puts me on a shelf; though high and above the rest.
If i wanted to be on display, a sign of his achievements..
along with an array of others..
Then we'd be "just friends"..
but the kind that awake in the same bed together.
You lost one.
But you have me encased...
The air between,
two cm glass panes.. leaves me sick.
The idea of sharing my space drives me insane.
You lost one.
See.. I have pride in myself.
More than money contributes to my wealth...
More than doctors to my good health.
More than Crest to my smile..
If you could walk a mile in my Minolo's.. or 2 steps in my bo'bos.. youd know.
Why i had to leave you.
Why I had to go.
You were playing checkers;
and Im playing chess.
I must confess; life is a game.
Im playing to win.
But the points dont matter until the end.
You lost one... (me)

家庭文化

陈家三口除了有名字，还都有'号'， 爸爸'阿傻'8 点半下班敲门，妈妈'肥婆'吩咐10 岁的儿子'阿呆'开门。'阿傻'工作很忙，回家后对'肥婆' 吩咐的家务反应有点慢，'肥婆' 微词他已进入了 '老年痴呆' 的早期。'阿呆'最近脾气见长，自称 有Pre-teen 的问题，患了'少年无聊综合征'。肥婆情绪向来不稳，而且活得很猛，真有敢上九天揽月，敢下五洋捉鳖的气魄。全家人都不得不默认她从小就在闹'更年期前症状'。

怎样看待亲人的弱点和生活中的各种美中不足呢？君子，不以物喜，不以己悲。人的确没必要天天活在对小小成就的巨大喜悦和对小小不如意的深深沮丧中。在情况不尽理想的时候，要有本事用幽默感让自己活得舒服一些。父母营造的温馨家庭气氛是孩子情感发育的最佳环境。让孩子自小就懂得'自嘲'，能用幽默驱除生活中负面情绪的困扰就等于给孩子打了一只防'抑郁症'的疫苗。